"After a deeply traumatic experience, I had struggled for years with physical closeness and feeling safe around men. Ruben approached me with incredible sensitivity, patience and respect. His work helped me slowly reconnect with my body and experience touch in a way that felt safe, gentle and entirely my own. It was an experience that opened a door I thought had been closed for a long time."

Ruben Beckert
Sensual Therapist
About Me
Who? I’m Ruben, an osteopath, physiotherapist, conscious mentor, and yoga & meditation teacher. With over 20 years of experience in bodywork and a deep interest in human connection, embodiment, and conscious touch, I bring a holistic and mindful approach to my work.
How? My work combines mindful touch, somatic awareness, and a trauma-informed approach to sensual massage. I create a space where you can slow down, reconnect with your body, explore sensations, and experience touch without pressure or expectations. Every session is guided by your needs, boundaries, and consent.
Languages: German / English
Services
Trauma-Informed Sensual Massage: A consent-led approach to sensual touch, relaxation and embodied awareness. Sessions take place within a clear, respectful container, with open communication, personal boundaries and ongoing consent at the centre. An invitation to slow down, reconnect with your body, explore intimacy, pleasure and self-exploration without pressure or expectations. Touch, including any intimate areas, is always discussed and explicitly agreed upon beforehand.
Workshops & Lectures: Individual workshops and educational sessions on conscious touch, sensual massage, embodiment and body awareness. Each session is individually prepared and tailored to your interests, needs and level of experience — from introductions to sensual massage for couples to practical sessions for individuals and practitioners. Available on request.
Q&A
What is Trauma-Informed Sensual Massage? A mindful approach to sensual touch that invites you to reconnect with your body, explore sensations and experience intimacy at your own pace.
What happens during a session? We begin with a conversation about your needs and boundaries. The session unfolds through conscious touch, always guided by your comfort and consent.
Is this a sexual service? No. It is a form of conscious, sensual bodywork focused on connection, awareness and exploration, not sexual services.
What does trauma-informed mean? It means working with sensitivity, respect and awareness of personal boundaries, creating space for choice, safety and autonomy.
Do I need previous experience? Not at all. Curiosity and openness are enough. You are welcome exactly as you are.
Can I choose which areas of my body are touched? Absolutely. Everything is discussed beforehand. You remain in control and can change your mind or pause at any time.
Do I need to be naked? No. Your level of undress is entirely your choice. We find an arrangement that feels comfortable for you.
May I be naked? Absolutely. If you feel comfortable being naked, you are very welcome to do so. It can allow for a more complete and uninterrupted experience of the massage, but there is never any expectation.
What are the prices for your 90min massage?
€75 / Rp1.5M - Accessible Rate
€110 / Rp2.2M - Standard Rate
€150 / Rp3M - Supporting Rate
My sliding scale helps make sessions accessible to everyone. Those with greater financial means can support those with less. Choose the contribution that feels right for you. If finances are a barrier, feel free to reach out - we’ll find a way.
Payment Methods? Cash · Card · Wise · Revolut · PayPal · Bank Transfer · Bitcoin
How can I book an appointment? Simply send me a message. Appointments are arranged individually.
Are home visits available? Yes, home visits can be arranged upon request, depending on location and availability.
Do you offer workshops? Yes. Individual workshops and educational sessions on conscious touch, sensuality and body awareness are available upon request.
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